I Don’t Want To Be Pregnant. Is Abortion My Only Option?

June 3, 2024

If you are pregnant, and it was unplanned, you may be seeking a way out. It can sometimes seem impossible to continue. 

If this is your situation, please contact us at Options For Her. We can provide you with a pregnancy test and ultrasound at no cost.

Our team will listen to you and provide information on available options. Even though everything seems overwhelming, you can move forward with support and information. 

What Are Your Options?

If you do not want to be pregnant, abortion is the only way to bring it to an end intentionally. However, is that the best solution for you?

Like any medical procedure, abortion has risks and side effects. There is a chance that the abortion may not be complete, leading to a surgical procedure. 

There can also be emotional side effects. While some women can feel immediate relief,  grief can surface months or years down the road. 

Here are some other options to consider:

1. Parenting

Even though having and raising a baby may seem daunting now, it is worth considering if this is something you want for your future. Ask yourself the following questions:

• Even though this may not seem like the right time, have you always wanted a child?
• Will those around you (your family or partner) support you?
• Do you have the resources to care for a child?
• What resources would you need to make this option possible for you?

Children require a lot of love and support. They will demand your time and attention but are also a great source of joy. 

2. Adoption

If you decide that both abortion and parenting are not right for you, adoption may be a good choice. In New Jersey, you have rights and options in the adoption process. 

As the birth mother, you can select the adoptive family, who must pass background checks and home studies.

You can decide if you will have a semi-open or open adoption and communicate with your child and the adoptive family. Or you can choose a closed adoption to remain anonymous and have no contact.

You can receive financial assistance for reasonable medical expenses, legal assistance, and adoption fees.

Want to Talk About Your Options?

At Options For Her, we will be happy to discuss these options further to assist you in choosing what is best for you. We always have an open door, a listening ear, and answers to your questions.